Bringing a new baby home is tender, beautiful… and let’s be honest, often a little chaotic. You’re adjusting to new rhythms, learning a tiny human, and running on love and coffee. So when it comes to in-home newborn photos, many parents ask the same question:

“How do we even get ready for this?”

Here’s the good news: these photos aren’t about perfection. They’re about presence. About capturing connection in your real environment—so years from now, you can remember the way your baby fit into your arms and the feeling of home in this season.

Here’s how to prepare so you feel at ease, not overwhelmed:

Tidy, don't deep clean

Choose 2-3 rooms with the best natural light—usually the nursery, living room, or bedroom—and focus your tidying there. You don’t need a spotless house. Simply toss extra clutter into baskets or closets, and let the rest be. These photos are about your real life, not a magazine spread.

the way your house looks right now tells part of your story too

Dress Simply and Comfortably

Think soft, neutral tones—creams, grays, pastels—or anything you feel calm and comfortable in. Avoid bold logos or heavy patterns. Layers, flowy fabrics, and cozy textures photograph beautifully. And yes, bare feet are totally okay!

For baby, I suggest a simple swaddle or onesie. We'll likely do several wrap changes, so no need to overthink outfits.

Permission to start small: You don’t need a full wardrobe change for everyone. Simple and snuggly is perfect.

Feed and Snuggle Baby Before I Arrive

A full, cozy baby is a happy baby. Try to plan a feeding 20–30 minutes before our scheduled start time. But if baby’s schedule shifts, that’s okay! We’ll follow their lead. You don’t need to stress about a strict timeline—we’ll move at a gentle, baby-led pace.

don't worry about siblings "behaving"

If you have older siblings, I want them to feel like this is fun—not a formal event. I’ll guide them through gentle prompts and give them time to warm up. Some of the most beautiful moments happen when kids are just being themselves.

If you catch yourself thinking, “They’re being too wild,” pause and ask—
“Or are they just being real?”

Let Go of the Pressure to Perform

You just brought a human into the world. That’s enough. You’re enough. This isn’t about staged perfection—it’s about presence, connection, and documenting your love in a way that will matter decades from now.

 Have a Few Comfort Items Nearby

A pacifier, extra burp cloths, a backup swaddle—these small items make transitions smoother. I may move around furniture slightly or open a curtain to let more light in, but I’ll always work within your space and comfort.

Expect Emotion—and Let It Be Welcome

Tears, yawns, baby squeaks, or sibling meltdowns? All part of it. These images will honor the honesty of new life. It’s okay to be tired. It’s okay to need a break. I’ll walk you through every step.

You’re not expected to perform. You’re invited to be.

If you take away one thing, let it be this:
You don’t need to get your home or your body or your baby to “cooperate” in order to deserve beautiful photos. You already do.

I’ll come ready to see and celebrate you as you are—with tenderness, calm direction, and a whole lot of grace.

Cheering for you,
Em